Dating a girl with a kid bobby dating service
Recently I met a girl who I have been dating for almost 2 months and she is wonderful.
She is down to earth, funny, smart, ambitious, independent, kind and extremely attractive and I mean very, very, very gorgeous.
For example, when at home everyone gets along and does activities together, but in public the child may ignore the step parent and keep a distance.
Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.
Here’s what to do: Your go/no-go window remains the third date, but the signals will be all new. My ex self-immolated when I joked about meeting his 6-year-old anytime before she was, say, old enough to drive. I treat my date’s offspring like feral, if adorable, animals—keeping my distance and letting them make the first move.
As with anything new, practice is needed or in this case just feeling comfortable with this new situation.
After time, the child will feel more and more comfortable and frustration will lessen.
In other words, if you’re still in the “dating just to date” phase of your life, involving a woman with a child is probably not the type of relationship you should engage in because your actions will more than likely impact the lives of two people — the woman and the child.