Menchats flashing - How to beat dating games
They see how wonderful he is and constantly tell you how lucky you are. It doesn’t matter how much he cozies up to those you love. He’s afraid you’ll dump him for someone hotter or better. All you have to do is know how to play him right back. Instead, make it obvious you know what’s going on and put him back in his place.
You can’t have love in a relationship and simultaneously have counter-measures and defenses in how you relate to the other person. Maybe short, isolated events will happen that can make you feel like you’re gaining or losing ground…
You can have love or you can have someone you compete against… but in the long term, it always results in guardedness, resentment, and withholding…
Is there a way to break the texting game or is that who that person is by nature and there’s nothing that can be done? Honestly, there’s no winning if you view a relationship as a game in the first place.
Whether or not it’s intentional is something you can never know for sure, so it’s in your best interest to believe it’s not (and if it is, then it’s because of some fear or issue he has and not because he’s trying to manipulate you).
if things go through that mental filter, it is always going to be a loss in the long run.